If you’re new to Resource Freak, this post may seem like an odd one – why talk about marriage when our focus is Leadership, Business and Personal Development. Where does marriage fit? Since 4 in 10 marriages end in divorce, this is big problem that has far reaching impact on our communities and businesses. If you’re not married – were married – thinking about being married – keep reading. This insight will give you understanding based on over three decades of counseling and scientific biblical research. Changed thinking – changes lives and this resource changes people. Remember, leaders help others by sharing resources like this one!

Anxiety and conflict in relationships grows from unmet expectations. When we think of marriage we all have expectations. The problem is we unload them on our spouse. This robs our marriages of love and respect.  So what do you do with your unmet expectations? You can’t ignore them. God gave you these ideal desires for your marriage. Do you or someone you know argue a lot in their relationship? 

Love And Respect: The Love She Most Desires, The Respect He Most Desperately Needs by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. “It’s a simple message. A wife has one driving need – to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need – to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy. Love And Respect reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily and biblically.

However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Ephesians 5:33

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs and his wife, Sarah, have already taken the Love and Respect message across America and are changing the way couples talk to, think about, and treat each other. What do you want for your marriage? Want some peace? Want to feel close? Want to feel valued? Want to experience marriage the way God intended? Then why not try some Love and Respect.”

Reading or listening to Love and Respect will change your understanding of relationships.  It has sold over 2 million copies and hundreds of thousands heave heard this message live. The authors have created a website for their message.

Conferences using this message are going on across the United States and Canada.

Love and Respect also offers this teaching in a six week small group series called Building Blocks. To watch the promo video click here.

I prefer to listen to this message in the authors own voice. I find it adds enormously to my comprehension such that I take action from the persuasive nature of the spoken message.  Concurrently I’ll follow along and read the book. After all, it’s hard to highlight while you are driving!

Many men I have met tell me this book saved their marriage! This is engaging inspiring and helpful resource will change your thinking on relationships. It has for me.

Gain understanding and learn about forgiveness, reconciliation, change and hope. Everyone can improve their marriage by reading or listening to Love and Respect.

Attitude          Consider the impact of strained marriages on our businesses and communities?

Action              Order this resource and listen or read the book to help your relationship.

Question         Do you see the need for help in this area?

Resource         Love and Respect: The Love She Most Desires – The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs